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Porn And Fame

I was reading today about Montana Fisburne, actor Laurence Fishurne’s daughter, porn film debut.  I’m no prude and really don’t care about people making, watching or whatever else they want in, about, or with the porn industry.  What caught my attention was her alleged statement: “I’ve watched how successful Kim Kardashian became and I think... [Read more]

Time And Success Are Relative, Love Is A Constant

I have always struggled with time. When I was 15 years old and decided to start dancing, I thought I was already too old and would have a tough path ahead. When I was in my early 20s, I thought I was falling behind in terms of accomplishments if compared to others around me. Now in my 40s I struggle with the idea of being too old to still be attractive... [Read more]

Who Amongst Us Has Not Wondered At The Power And Capacity Of Life?

Most of us are so attached to what we perceive as reality that our view of life becomes very narrow. Robert Lanza M.D., one of the leading scientists in the world writes “Reality is determined by the observer. Biocentrism tells us space and time are merely tools of the mind…The central concept of Descartes was the primacy of consciousness, that... [Read more]

Find What Really Matters To You And Have A Meaningful Life

I must ask you again to indulge my story telling ways as I go around the world to make my point. Saturday night I watched Valkyrie with Tom Cruise.  The film tells the story of the last attempt by German officials to assassinate Adolf Hitler. It is not a great film but the real story is; men who saw wrong and risk their own lives to make it right. I... [Read more]

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How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love Being A Stay At Home Dad How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love Being A Stay At Home Dad

I love this post on the Huffington Post.  It’s a candid share of a man living a non-traditional life. We are often afraid of what others will think of our choices and either stop ourselves from doing what we want or we feel the need to hide our choices.  At the end of the day our lives are for us and are for real.  Our lives are not for show. Let’s... [Read more]

Might As Well Face It: You’re Addicted To Love Might As Well Face It: You’re Addicted To Love

Saw the below article on CNN.com and thought it was worth sharing. It talks about the highs we feel when we are in love and the craving when we are rejected.  The article actually states that physiologically being in love is the same as being high on cocaine and so when things end we miss it just like we would the drug. The study was based on brain... [Read more]

Love Myths Love Myths

I’m always looking for good articles to share with you.  Today I came across the below article by Dawn Raffel based on an interview conducted with Diana de Vegh. What I love about it, is how clearly talks about our misguided concepts about soul mates and people completing each other.  These are romantic thoughts developed and sustained by society... [Read more]

5 Intuitions About Love And Sex You Shouldn’t Ignore 5 Intuitions About Love And Sex You Shouldn’t Ignore

Saw the below post today and thought would make a good companion to my yesterday’s blog post The Fine Line Between Loving With Our Entire Heart And Losing It. In my post I discuss the choices we make as we enter any new relationship.  Should I jump in with my heart first or should I spare it? I concluded by saying, jump in with an open heart... [Read more]

Loving What Is: Four Questions That Could Change Your Life Loving What Is: Four Questions That Could Change Your Life

I really like this post by Stacey Lawson.  It is an excerpt of her interview with Byron Katie, the writer of such books as “Loving What is” and “A Thousand Names For Joy”. The reason I like this interview is that it talks about the story WE create around an event and how that story then becomes what perpetuates our pain.  ... [Read more]

Turning Loneliness Into Deeper Connection Turning Loneliness Into Deeper Connection

I have just read the posting below and thought of sharing it with you.  It is a good companion to my earlier post The Pleasures Of Solitude (http://theloveprojectinc.com/?p=3192) —- By Anne Naylor, posted on the Huffington Post Loneliness accepted becomes a gift leading one from a life dominated by tears to the discovery of one’s true self and... [Read more]

Memorial Day Quotes Memorial Day Quotes

Much inspiration can be gained from the people that have made the ultimate sacrifice when fighting for an ideal they believed in. A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself. -Joseph Campbell Each man is a hero and an oracle to somebody. -Ralph Waldo Emerson Peace to each manly soul that sleepeth; Rest to each faithful... [Read more]

The Mind Of The Soul The Mind Of The Soul

I really like the below blog posted on the Huffington Post today by Dr. Judith Rich.  Among many things it talks about the importance of embracing our pain and difficulties by acknowledging and giving them the room they need.  That is not to say we should be depressed and anxious.  But what we should do is let the pain breathe instead of wanting... [Read more]

Sam Harris Sam Harris

Questions of good and evil, right and wrong are commonly thought unanswerable by science. But Sam Harris argues that science can — and should — be an authority on moral issues, shaping human values and setting out what constitutes a good life. Sam Harris has been identified as one of the “Four Horsemen of Atheism” — company... [Read more]

How And Why We Lie To Ourselves How And Why We Lie To Ourselves

I have just come across the post below on how we adjust our belief system when given two contradictory circumstances. Reading this post made me think about what happens to so many of us when we encounter someone whose attitudes don’t fit our pre-conceived idea of what they represent. Let me give an example:  Many years ago I dated a very successful,... [Read more]

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