Make Your Life Be What You Dream
For a great part of my life I heard people telling me: “You dream too big. Lower your expectations and you will be happier.” In a way it makes sense, right? If I lower my expectations I have to achieve less, and therefore when I do get to achieve the lesser expectations I’ll be completely happy. It sounds cohesive, but it is fundamentally wrong. The dreams we have is what fuels us to get up, research, investigate, invest, think, struggle, cry, and laugh. The dreams we have is what makes our journey a series of vibrant experiences. Lowering our expectations means giving up on what fuels us.
The point is; it doesn’t matter if we achieve everything we set ourselves out to. What matters is that we keep on creating goals and dreams to be our destination, the bigger the dream the bigger the journey.
Don’t sell yourself short. If you are surrounded by people who want to damp your greater dreams, befriend others that will support you on your journey.
Life is about experiences. How we plot to get where we want to go and how we deal with the successes and the obstacles.
Just make sure your goals are worthwhile. Don’t waste your life by dreaming about becoming famous just for the sake of it. Let being famous become a consequence of some worthwhile endeavor. If you dream about being rich, make being rich a consequence of something amazing that is going to change the way people see themselves and live their lives. Why not? Dream big and live big.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined – Henry David Thoreau
In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins – not through strength, but through persistence.