The Difference Between Loneliness And Solitude
Being solitary is being alone well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice, aware of the fullness of your won presence rather than of the absence of others. Because solitude is an achievement – Alice Koller
Although loneliness and solitude are often thought to be the same experience, nothing could be further from the truth.
Loneliness manifests itself as a sense of emptiness and isolation while solitude creates a sense of communion with the self.
In loneliness we ache. In solitude we feast. In loneliness we have no one. In solitude we are one with the self.
It is in solitude that we learn to hear our own voice, to recognize and appease the pain and to celebrate who we are.
In solitude we clear out the clutter. We ask and answer such questions as: What’s really important to me? What do I really want?
It is also we solitude that we provide ourselves with simple and meaningful joys.
The only way to end loneliness is through solitude because we are never alone if we are connected to ourselves.
So how do we come to create and appreciate solitude? By taking the time to be by ourselves, to relax and to listen to what really is going on within us. It is also by soothing ourselves with simple activities such as: a bath, a glass of wine, music or meditation.
Solitude is precious time with the self. It is where we plan our next steps.