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Comment on Create Yourself by Deborah Calla

Deborah Calla — Mon, 10 Dec 2012 18:02:54 +0000

Dear Jill,

Sorry for the much delayed response. I’m glad you found my post to support your new way of being. I totally get your process. I spent many years of my life being proud of the fact that I never “ate shit” without realizing that I was often in a ready to battle state of mind which got me nowhere. As my ego got stronger, I was then able to let go of needing to prove to be right to having better relationships and communications. All the best to you. Deborah

Comment on If You Can’t Change Others, Change Yourself by Deborah Calla

Deborah Calla — Mon, 10 Dec 2012 17:54:59 +0000

Dear Jeff,

Sorry for the delayed response. I think it is important to live one day at a time with connectedness with our selves. By doing so we find strength and direction. It is hard to find the clarity needed to know how we want our journey to be. But, that is our responsibility. All the best.

Comment on If You Can’t Change Others, Change Yourself by jeff

jeff — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 01:11:26 +0000

thank you for this wisdom Iv been married to a woman who only sees the glass half empty and refuses to meet me half way on thought, I found myself alone hurt and in the dark on how to deal with this so anger drove me to look for a way out and now I seek change even to the point if it means to seperate. I know my soul need some peace. Jeff

Comment on Create Yourself by Become Your Own Biggest Fan « Veronica's Place

Become Your Own Biggest Fan « Veronica's Place — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 03:47:49 +0000

[...] Create Yourself: There is a type of dance human beings in relationships do; self-defense/attack. I’m not referring to romantic relationships only. I’m talking about all kinds of relationships; work, family and friendship. [...]

Comment on Don’t Delay Happiness Because Your Life Isn’t Perfect Yet by Live Your Life Even If It’s Not Where You Want It To Be « Kitty Kat Theater

Live Your Life Even If It’s Not Where You Want It To Be « Kitty Kat Theater — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 02:58:55 +0000

[...] The Love Project Inc.: Having dreams related to work or family is a good thing. But, not enjoying life because we haven’t achieved those dreams yet – is not. [...]

Comment on Let Go Of Impatience by Ways to Better Your Life: Let Go and Love « Veronica's Place

Ways to Better Your Life: Let Go and Love « Veronica's Place — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 01:49:47 +0000

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Comment on Create Yourself by Jill

Jill — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 02:44:34 +0000

This was a wonderfully concise article that reaffirmed for me that my recent practice of diffusing tense situations with understanding is in fact the way to go. My previous battle-ready mentality certainly wasn’t getting me anywhere but I had been struggling with the feeling that to not express my discontent was in fact to “eat shit”. Now I just feel that it is a more evolved way to work with the situation.

Comment on Self Destructive Behavior, How To Stop It by Deborah Calla

Deborah Calla — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 19:16:25 +0000

Dear Vicky,

I’m glad something I’ve written has made you think of things differently. I write from personal experience and as I write I get to rethink my life.

Best,

Deborah

Comment on A Love Letter To My Husband by Deborah Calla

Deborah Calla — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 19:14:46 +0000

Dear Joe,

Thank you for thinking of me “today”. It is a beautiful reminder that when we speak from our hearts we can connect with others in profound ways.

While we can all get busy with our needs and ambitions, relationships is what truly support and sustain us.

Today I’m thinking of you and your sister in law.

Many blessings,

Deborah

Comment on A Love Letter To My Husband by Joe Payne

Joe Payne — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 23:47:45 +0000

Dear Deborah,
I happened by your letter to your husband quite by accident. It is beautiful and touched me very much. If you didn’t have your name attached to it I would have thought it had been written by my sister in law. She lost her husband, my brother, to brain cancer 2 1/2 years ago. She adored him. He was an awesome brother….extremely intelligent and very funny at the same time. He had so much energy and zest for living. It seemed like a cruel blow for someone who loved life so much to then have his life taken from him. This just shows that disease does not discriminate.

Deborah, even though we have not met, I just wanted to send this so that you know someone thought of you today. My own wife and I had spent the last several years gradually growing apart. Recently, this thought about the brevity of life kept eating at me. In short, our relationship is being renewed. Life is too short to waste it apart from those we have been given to love.

Thank you very much for sharing about your relationship with this man you loved and surely remember today. I wish you the best.

Joe Payne