The Moment That Defined Spirituality

November 29, 2010 by  
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Below is a very interesting post I found on O, the Oprah Magazine.  Enjoy!

A window opening. A glimpse of the ungraspable. A sudden surge of love…or hope…or awe. We asked artists, writers, thinkers, and doers to recall the flashes of understanding that took their breath away.

Faith Adiele
Author of Meeting Faith: The Forest Journals of a Black Buddhist Nun (Norton)

Every time I act without knowing the outcome, with the risk of failure looming before me, I try to see that as a spiritual moment. Every time I transcend my limitations or touch something larger than myself: one step closer.

Diana Ackerman
Author of The Zookeeper’s Wife: A War Story (Norton)

Growing up in Illinois, I played outside each day and found nature a limitless source of surprises and wonder. That’s where I first felt a sense of belonging to its pervasive mystery, of being finite in the face of the infinite and surrounded by powerful and unseen forces. A deity wasn’t required; I rejoiced in a sort of eco-spirituality. I still think of myself as an Earth Ecstatic. The tenets of this personal religion are few: I believe in the sanctity of life and the ability of people to improve their behavior toward others. As basic as that stance is, for me it is also tonic, deeply spiritual, and complete—it glorifies the lowliest life-forms and embraces the most distant stars…Continued


Madonna, Kabbalah And Spiritual Trends

November 28, 2009 by  
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So I’m here in my native town Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, producing a Canadian film.  About ten days ago Madonna was in town collecting money for SFK and her Raising Malawi charity.  SFK stands for Spirituality For Kids, a Kabbalah Center effort and Raising Malawi is a Madonna, Michael Berg (son of Kabbalah Center founder) project.

Her stay here was very profitable; it seems that she was able to get a $10,000,000 pledge from a couple of business men as well as a commitment from Rio de Janeiro’s mayor to apply the educational and spiritual methods of SFK to Rio de Janeiro public schools.

While I believe that every child in this planet is entitled to help, I wonder why these same business men don’t usually invest in taking the thousands of children off the streets of their own towns as well as help the other thousands that live in favelas (shanty towns) that surround their homes.  The answer is simple: Madonna.

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6 Ways To Restore Your Energy And Find Rest In Everyday Life

August 21, 2009 by  
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You may be the type of person who tells yourself that you need to get away in order to rest or that you will rest when you have time. Perhaps you say that when the job or project is done, then you’ll rest. Maybe you are even waiting for “the kids to be grown up” before you’ll rest. This way of living life, where we are consistently putting off what is essential for us, makes no rational sense at all. Rest is already in our presence and the purpose of this article is to assist you in making a crucial, subtle shift that may enable you to fully experience rest in at least one of its many facets.There are many ways of looking at what rest actually is. It is not only a multifaceted word but also, in life, a richly nuanced expression — an attitude that we can bring into our daily lives, no matter what we are doing. There is no need to wait to rest when we can rest right now in the moment or between moments. We don’t need to strain to live. As counterintuitive as it may seem in today’s culture, for the most part life can be lived in a relaxed, restful way.

As far back as 300 B.C., the philosopher Chuang Tzu observed that when an archer was practicing, he shot with relaxation and skill. When a moderate financial award was placed in front of the archer, he got a little tense, his aim faltered and he often missed the target. When a large award was offered for his accuracy, he became nervous and worried, with obvious results. This led Chuang Tzu to wryly observe that, “He who looks too hard on the outside gets clumsy on the inside.”

In modern times people who play golf find their swing is near perfect when there is no ball to hit. But once a ball is placed on the tee and someone is keeping score, the inexperienced golfer’s swing inevitably fails and the ball goes off its intended path. When a golfer has a drink, he often becomes more relaxed and his game improves. So even though a specific feat can be improved by artificial means, it is at the expense of our being fully present and reduces our ability to respond to other circumstances. Imagine how our performance in everyday life would improve if we could learn to find rest and relaxation from within ourselves.

The question is, “How could we relax in the process of living?” or, “How can we have rest in our daily lives? How do we live for the rest of our lives?”

Here are six resting points or techniques that can assist us in finding rest and relaxation, peace, tranquility, and restoration within ourselves and within the great self that embraces and holds us all. Try one and you’re on your way to the rest of your life.

1. The Breath: Following the rise and fall of your breath can bring you to a peaceful and calm place and restore your energy. It brings you present. Allow your breath all the way into your belly to reduce stress. The key to natural and full breathing is in the exhalation – the letting go. However, don’t force anything.

2. The Nap: It is very underutilized in our culture. Twenty minutes is ideal but even a five-minute nap can be very restorative. Don’t go more than 20 minutes or you may feel groggy. If you only have a minute, try this. Hold some keys in your hands and bend forward in your chair with your lower arms resting on your thighs. As you nod off, the keys will drop and wake you up. Even in that minute, you will feel a little more refreshed. The point here is that taking a little time for yourself for rest, prayer, meditation, or spiritual exercises can profoundly affect the quality of your day.

3. The Pause: Learning to pause is a great tool to have up your sleeve. Its value is in bringing you consciously present. You can pause a moment in your daily routine and say, “I am present. I am here, now.” Then allow yourself to be with whatever is revealed. A further refinement is to bring your attention to the pause between exhaling and inhaling. Even doing this once will give you a moment of rest and restoration.

4. Silence: The word “listen” contains the same letters as the word “silent.” Choose to be present and alert and to listen past the inner conversations of the mind. Listen past the sounds of the world and just listen to the silence. Listen attentively to whatever comes forward out of the silence. If things start to distract and disrupt you, bring your focus back to the silence. When you practice bringing your presence into the silence, you will experience a knowing and a wisdom that will start flowing within you. It will usually bring you to a state of peace, calm and clarity.

5. Doing nothing: A great way to interrupt the pattern of habitual doing. It is akin to entering a state of observation, where you perceive things clearly just for what they are. An analogy is watching boats going out to sea. You observe them as they pass you. Then you observe the next one. If you gawk or think about how you would like to be in a boat, you have moved out of observation. Observation is only about what is, not what you know or don’t know about a situation. The power that comes from that, internally, is tremendous. It’s an active place of neutrality. The process of observing what is, is the process that releases and restores us.

6. Meditation – Resting in Yourself: “To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.” Lao-Tzu. When you haven’t developed an intimate relationship with life or with yourself, you’ll tend to look toward having sex or acquiring more money, or to any attractive distraction to fill the emptiness inside. To fill yourself, you have to be prepared to spend time alone – quality time with yourself, not with a good book, not watching television, art or with music. Although those have their place, learn to be quiet with your own inner self. Any time you can bring your focus onto one thing, a flower, a sacred word, a scene in nature, you are meditating. The simplest way to meditate is to observe the rising and falling of your breath.

Written by Paul Kaye, DSS, President of the Movement of Spiritual Inner Awareness (MSIA) and co-author of numerous books with Dr. John-Roger, NY Times #1 Bestselling Author. For more information, please visit or


The Secret

August 20, 2009 by  
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One of my blog readers often corresponds with me.  Recently she brought up The Secret and asked if I had read the book or seen the movie.  I told her I hadn’t done either but was aware of the project.  It had been and it is a great internet success. 

Yesterday, after my family left, my sister and nieces have been staying with me for two weeks I downloaded The Secret and watched it.

The basic message of The Secret is the law of attraction.  What you think and concentrate on is what you will attract in your life.  It’s simple to communicate and to understand.  And that’s where I have a little bit of a concern with. 

Let me explain what I mean.  Of course I agree that negativity tends to attract negativity and positivism attracts positivism.  I also agree that everything in existence is energy and that is a scientific reality.  But what makes it all a bit more complicated are three things:  1 – who we are and what we wish is not separate from the rest of the world, 2 – we can’t fake being positive and 3 – time has its own mind.

Let me talk about#1:  My energy and yours and everyone’s and everything are one huge mass of energy interacting and modifying everything.  And what is energy? Energy is vibration that can never be created or destroyed only modified.  The reason we see objects and ourselves is because we are in low frequencies.  Anyway, the point I’m trying to make is that not only we need to project positive energy into the world but what surrounds us has to be positive.  And the world has to jive with what we want.

#2 – Being positive and seeing the glass half full is a true state of mind.  You can’t fake it.

But why would anyone choose to look at a glass half empty if we do have an alternative? This is something we can all work on; to try to see the positive in everything. 

August 15th marked one year since my husband passed away.  There is nothing in that that is positive.  But rethinking my life, changing as person, starting this site, writing a book etc. is positive.  I found a way to use my pain and sadness and transform it into something good.

#3 – I think a lot about the concept of time.  How something can feel at the same time like it happened yesterday and also a long time ago?  How an hour sometimes can go by really fast and sometimes really slow.  I think the reason for that is because time is a concept we all function by but that in a way is affected by each one of us individually.  So if I have strong feelings about something my time relationship with that something is unique. 

The world also has its own time and so sometimes the results or consequences of thoughts and actions can play out immediately or in the future.  Because we are a society of quick results, the world’s own idea of time always frustrates and disappoints us.

Anyway, I think being clear about what we want and being positive about ourselves and life is mandatory for a more fulfilling experience but we also need to truly believe in what we want, surround ourselves with others that support who we are and allow the world to deliver in its own time.  And of course, all of this is just my opinion.